{"id":558,"date":"2022-09-13T11:50:19","date_gmt":"2022-09-13T09:50:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kirstenweess.de\/why-create-a-bond-with-yourself\/"},"modified":"2022-10-12T20:50:26","modified_gmt":"2022-10-12T18:50:26","slug":"why-create-a-bond-with-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kirstenweess.com\/en\/why-create-a-bond-with-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Why create a bond with yourself?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What moved me and moves me in my life is what makes me as a woman today.<\/p>\n<p>I had to look 5 years ago, because I just did not know any more, because I had been too busy with my outside and my outside image.<\/p>\n<p>I felt misunderstood, empty, not loved and somehow had no task that fulfilled me.<\/p>\n<p>I was looking for confirmation of my being, of myself as a woman, as a partner, as a mother.<\/p>\n<p>I could not create this connection to myself, let alone, I did not know at all what I loved about myself and what made me.<\/p>\n<p>I also thought it was enough to be nice, nothing will happen to you, to look nice, to be socially involved in some way, but there was always something missing. I had absolutely no charisma, I didn&#8217;t stand out, I just existed.<\/p>\n<p>After my separation from my ex-husband, which didn&#8217;t go so well, and a relationship that naturally got completely out of hand, I had to admit to myself and find the courage to look at myself, to look inside myself.<\/p>\n<p>(I tell you, in between there were various howling attacks, anger, grief, completely lost image, feel unfairly treated, etc.).<\/p>\n<p>So I had to look at my existence, my me, my little Kirsten and work with me, reflect, let go of things and people, dig deep and dig to even understand and connect with me!<\/p>\n<p>Until I understood who lives in me and how I want to live. And it became clearer to me who I am, what my being and love needed.<\/p>\n<p>I was single for 4 years and was able to follow myself, my values and my goals without restrictions.<\/p>\n<p>My work as a PTA went much easier and with more joy, my training as a coach helped me to understand more and more and the subsequent training in foot reflexology harmonization opened a door to connect me even more with people.<\/p>\n<p>So why work with women? Because I can understand what you are feeling, what your motivations are, what is going on inside you.<\/p>\n<p>Women asking their questions about who they are: What woman am I? What kind of woman do I want to be? What kind of woman do I want to feel? How do I want to love? Which values belong to me? What do my dreams and visions have to do with me? Existential worries accompany you, start from scratch and how should I manage all this?<\/p>\n<p>There are many more questions that also occupied me, see tasks coming up, like a huge mountain of emotional mess.<\/p>\n<p>Everything seemingly perfect on the outside, crumbling on the inside!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a process, your connection to you, your new beginning!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s worth it to see you shine!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Your Kirsten<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What moved me and moves me in my life is what makes me as a woman today. I had to look 5 years ago, because I just did not know any more, because I had been too busy with my outside and my outside image. 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